That kind of woman - she's not for everybody to see!

That kind of woman...Is it you? Is it me? What is it about "that kind of woman"? Who is she? So, I'd say she is yours and yet not entirely, a woman who is hers and yet not properly, a woman who's in search of herself and yourself and yet still searching... a woman like no other: that kind of woman.

She's very alluring at first but you don't know if you want to keep her or not, if she's fit to you, if she understands your needs. Is like Jean Paul Sartre's relationship with Simone de Beauvoir. At first, they didn't want to involve, then they proposed themselves a two year relationship. The time passed and after those two years they still found themselves in that relationship. They thought they should meet other people and break off, still they couldn't. In the end, Jean Paul Sartre realized that this relationship was for him "necessary. The others were arbitrary."

 So, he found that kind of woman. The kind of woman that you need to protrude to realize she fulfills your life. The kind of woman that you need to catch and let her go at the same time so her freedom would not collide with yours. That woman that would understand that your freedom and happiness are hers, too and that makes her unique from the others. But, you have to see that kind of woman. She is not for everybody to see!

You don't need to search for that kind of woman. And you might not even recognize her when you meet her. But still, there will always be something in your soul that leads to her. That something that makes that kind of a woman. It's not the modern prototype of strong independent woman, no, she is more like an inner force that can stir and create in you worlds you have never dreamt of. Yes, a creative force that you needed in your life, the force that will fill your empty holes, that will throw away all your prejudices and wrong thoughts. You may not see her with these eyes at first, but giving her the chance, it will complete your life.

That kind of woman ...the type of woman who is not afraid of dreaming and going after her dream no matter the voices, the type of woman that knows one love from a single instant and pursue it no matter the social conjunctures, the type of woman that leads you to a level unknown to you...

The kind of woman who does not need superficial guidance but her own voice, the type of woman who made from fear her friend and jumps into adventure, beautiful discovering adventure, the kind of woman who is not afraid of saying the right words and going all the way with it, the kind of woman that seems like a mess for the common eye, but who's a force for the ones who know...

That kind of woman whom you want to kiss and, more than this, to kiss her soul, to let yourself once go for making room for her, for that kind of woman that touches your soul even from the distance...And be sure that this kind of woman will not dance on your feelings but along with them...You will finally let her conquer you and you, yes you the reticent one, you'll discover her blessings.

Is like Ernest Hemingway wrote on "A Farewell to Arms":

"Maybe...you'll fall in love with me all over again."
"Hell," I said, "I love you enough now. What do you want to do? Ruin me?"
"Yes. I want to ruin you."
"Good," I said. "That's what I want too."

Kind of a funny fragment that makes you realize that, in the end, is all about the love and the searching for the true you. You'll find it with ... that kind of woman.

Editor Andra Oprea